Friendless and Confused

Since my childhood, I want to earn name, fame, recognition and a sense of an important person. Therefore I want that my every demand must be carried out by other people. This is not possible every time. Therefore, when someone does not follow my dictates, I get angry. I snap my all ties with that person. It has resulted in the fact that I am a lonely person now. I have very few friends now. Also I have bad relations with my parents. Is it necessary to change when other people don’t change for you? Why always I had to adjust? Adjusting means defeat to me. Should I always compromise my desires for losing only? Life does not seemed complete and fulfilled without the desires being fulfilled. Plz help me.