Recognizing Your Partner

I´m reading your book about love- The Path to Love. I´m looking for a real love in my life, and my question is exactly about that: how to recognize “the one”; I mean, at this moment I can see many relationships are based on anything and far from real love. There are so many relationships where people just talk and think but they don´t really feel. It seems people approach love like they do fast food. I´m trying hard to find somebody who wants to live the love the way you describe in your book. My soul cries reading your words and looking at the reality around me…and I believe that one day I will find somebody who wants these things too, but I ask myself: how can I recognize this man and stop this circle of hurt and disappointment?